Well, for today, anyway. And even still, not really. We had a lovely birthday breakfast party; my mom took Harry last night and they got a cake which was hidden in his closet. She called this morning to make sure he remembered, and told me it was an ice cream cake. Ha. Meanwhile, I'm looking forward to a birthday and days following completely unlike last year's.
We're doing a birthday brunch for Suzy on Sunday; I've started cooking already and will get some updates over the weekend.
And yes, Suzy had tunnel vision on that cake. And she loved it.